sweet courtly longing 
offering up one's lot 
comfortable belonging 
this is what love's not 

happy devotion 
all said in a kiss 
two people, one motion 
love surely isn't this 

one person forever 
all others grow faint 
abating never 
this is what love ain't 

when you've found your One 
your shimmering white dove 
look for excitement or fun 
make sure it's not love